I have so much to say about this, but to keep it short. Does he understand you have a problem(s)?
Does he understand what it means to have an ab separation? It is NOT just belly fat and go and do some sit-up.
Doe he understand the impact it has on you and his life, on your long term health (bills), the way you show up as a mom, as a woman, your marriage, and even in the bedroom?
Simply ask him, If random people come up and ask, "Dude, when are you going to get rid of this belly" , not just one time, two times; he is constantly being afraid to be asked.
Ask him, "what if you can't hold your pee and make it to the washroom in time, and you have to wear a men pad, how do you feel?"
and ask him, "what if your back hurts so much, you are missing out in your children's activities?"
Don't down play your worth in front of him, just because he is the breadwinner. If this man loves you, he would do anything to make you happy, just like the day he made his vow to you.
Your are worthy.
Be there for your family.
Please invite him to the call with you and show him this page.