I have much to say, but to keep it brief: Does he truly understand your problems?
Does he grasp the significance of having an ab separation? It's not just belly fat; it can't be fixed with a few sit-ups.
Does he comprehend the impact it has on your life, long-term health, role as a mother, woman, your marriage, and even intimacy?
Simply ask him how he'd feel if people constantly asked when he'd get rid of his belly.
Ask him how he'd feel if he couldn't control his bladder and had to wear pads, or if his back pain prevented him from participating in his children's activities.
Your worth should never be downplayed because he's the breadwinner. If he loves you, he should do anything to make you happy, just as he vowed on your wedding day.
You are worthy. Invite him to the call and show him this page.